Toxicity
Toxicity, a degree, to stratify the effects of something toxic.
But its not always the chemicals which are toxic, it is the people and the environment too which are toxic.
Toxicity does not always have to relate to in terms of hate. Over indulgence of anything can be toxic. You make some friends, there is no similarity of thought process, there are no common grounds but they are cool, everyone knows them and so you tag along. Some time later, you start to deeply observe that this association is not fruitful, there is no learning and this can only drag you away or deeply effect your own personality
There are a couple of things you will notice when you realize this,
firstly, you will find out that the friendship is very superficial, it will not last the test of time.
secondly, you come to find out that such associations leave you confused and away from your ideas.
thirdly, you start to question whether its right or wrong to stay on your own track.
What to do now, you already have limited people in life and breaking away from the few will only rub salt over your wounds, but you need to do something at the very least.
Remember these few things, no one waits for anyone and time will never hold its arms out for you.
The choices you make today, they will greatly influence the tomorrow you will get to live.
It is far better to live as you wish than to experiment as someone suggests. Your threshold of enjoyment and excitement varies, and you cannot live and enjoy life as anyone else. Those who tell you to enjoy the party, we all have different definitions of party, just make sure that your life is your own party. There's no scorecard out there, you don't have to do anything to be cool and accepted. If your decent choices are not accepted, it is time to choose a new crowd, try to enjoy your own work and not put the blame on anyone. Remember, the people who might be your first priority, to them you may not even be in the priority list.
I have met a couple of people with whom I really enjoyed working with, they did not appear cool to me at first but slowly I found out that there was a clear similarity between the thought process and mindset, it made work fun, but those people weren't my friends in the beginning.
The wrong crowd won't miss you but the right people surely will. Live life just for yourself and your own definition of happiness.
But its not always the chemicals which are toxic, it is the people and the environment too which are toxic.
Toxicity does not always have to relate to in terms of hate. Over indulgence of anything can be toxic. You make some friends, there is no similarity of thought process, there are no common grounds but they are cool, everyone knows them and so you tag along. Some time later, you start to deeply observe that this association is not fruitful, there is no learning and this can only drag you away or deeply effect your own personality
There are a couple of things you will notice when you realize this,
firstly, you will find out that the friendship is very superficial, it will not last the test of time.
secondly, you come to find out that such associations leave you confused and away from your ideas.
thirdly, you start to question whether its right or wrong to stay on your own track.
What to do now, you already have limited people in life and breaking away from the few will only rub salt over your wounds, but you need to do something at the very least.
Remember these few things, no one waits for anyone and time will never hold its arms out for you.
The choices you make today, they will greatly influence the tomorrow you will get to live.
It is far better to live as you wish than to experiment as someone suggests. Your threshold of enjoyment and excitement varies, and you cannot live and enjoy life as anyone else. Those who tell you to enjoy the party, we all have different definitions of party, just make sure that your life is your own party. There's no scorecard out there, you don't have to do anything to be cool and accepted. If your decent choices are not accepted, it is time to choose a new crowd, try to enjoy your own work and not put the blame on anyone. Remember, the people who might be your first priority, to them you may not even be in the priority list.
I have met a couple of people with whom I really enjoyed working with, they did not appear cool to me at first but slowly I found out that there was a clear similarity between the thought process and mindset, it made work fun, but those people weren't my friends in the beginning.
The wrong crowd won't miss you but the right people surely will. Live life just for yourself and your own definition of happiness.
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