The how not to series, Episode 03 how not to deal with a situation
Once you're handed down a certain number of blows you start to realize that things would go down one way or another, no matter how much you worry nothing can change what has to happen.
Once you reach this point, life becomes fairly simple for you. You worry, you take stress and it negatively impacts everything in your life; eventually things have to fall on one side at the end.
The second option is you take a step back, you analyze the situation and think your plans through, your options are 1) you can continue to worry and try to do what you can do. 2) you can try your best and try not to worry.
I did the first one a number of times, well did it impact the outcome? Not really, did it impact me? Oh yeah it did, but it was a lot of negativity, something which had stopped me from growing. Your company has a huge influence on you if you can find someone to boost your morale after suffering a fall, you are very lucky.
The second option requires some effort but again you need some positive energy to get you going.
If you worry to much your thinking is confined by your fears, if you stop the excess worrying you are able to see things more clearly and they actually make a lot more sense now.
At the end of this post, i can tell you this, if you want to know how not to deal with a situation, you need to stop worrying too much and accept what happens, since everything has a reason behind it.
Dont worry that much, it won't effect the climax but you'll end up losing your hair and gaining weight a lot more quickly!
Once you reach this point, life becomes fairly simple for you. You worry, you take stress and it negatively impacts everything in your life; eventually things have to fall on one side at the end.
The second option is you take a step back, you analyze the situation and think your plans through, your options are 1) you can continue to worry and try to do what you can do. 2) you can try your best and try not to worry.
I did the first one a number of times, well did it impact the outcome? Not really, did it impact me? Oh yeah it did, but it was a lot of negativity, something which had stopped me from growing. Your company has a huge influence on you if you can find someone to boost your morale after suffering a fall, you are very lucky.
The second option requires some effort but again you need some positive energy to get you going.
If you worry to much your thinking is confined by your fears, if you stop the excess worrying you are able to see things more clearly and they actually make a lot more sense now.
At the end of this post, i can tell you this, if you want to know how not to deal with a situation, you need to stop worrying too much and accept what happens, since everything has a reason behind it.
Dont worry that much, it won't effect the climax but you'll end up losing your hair and gaining weight a lot more quickly!
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