More clarity and less confusion

Clarity and confusion, both of the letters start with the same alphabet "C" but are the exact opposite in meaning and as you start to pronounce them the different becomes obvious when your tongue curls in different manners to speak the two.

When two people are sitting in a room, without conversing none of them would be aware of the viewpoint of the other, they could make assumptions from the body language but they can't pinpoint to the viewpoints. When this stage is reached, confusion starts to build up, your own thought process is hijacked by the ambiguity which has surrounded the environment around you, to settle the confusion you must ask for answers and clearer ones, the answers might upset you as they were not what you had been able to deduce from the tiring detective work but once those are out there the whole process is streamlined. 

While stuck in those situations, I was unwilling to find clarity as I thought it would bust the bubble and reality wouldn't be as sweeter as this "assumption" was appearing to be, surely it wasn't sweet. It was the exact opposite, but it relieved that anxiety, just like you're standing at a showroom waiting for the dealer to come over and tell you that the car you wanted will just be out in front but the dealer doesn't tell you that and you never ask that whether they have the car currently or no. After an hour or so he comes to tells you that sorry we didn't have that car in the inventory but we can still offer you something else and you're so disappointed that why couldn't they tell me before but wait, did you ask them that is it available with them or not? You just told them what you wanted but didn't ask whether they could offer it or no, made a demand and simply thought they would follow through. Well that doesn't happen, get clarity in life, get this unnecessary and undesirable anxiety out of your life and feel free. Your time was wasted but wouldn't it be worse if you've paid for what you wanted and got what you didn't want, yeah Sir/Madam your car is here and you're all excited and then you see it's not the make and model you wanted and even the color is not what you wanted, you had signed all the paperwork and you just made a loss there. 

Getting an answer helped you find clarity, so get answers and you'll learn better. 

Put your thoughts into words, ask for their suggestions about the situation at hand so you can mentally prepare yourself for an answer then get clarity by asking for a solid answer. 

If it goes your way, Hooray. If it doesn't then my friend the world doesn't end there, maybe it's the start of something better.  

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