Tuesday, 30 April 2013
Monday, 29 April 2013
Perfection can never be achieved but you, me and everyone can ace what we love to do. I've never been good with putting emotions into words but seeing something today it made me kinda emotional and I've been trying to put that feeling into this post.
Don't aim for perfection cause that's not a virtue of humans aim for doing your best and leaving with a smile. Don't wait and look around for someone to notice ya cause they won't notice ya, no one will till you have gold written all over ya. I waited for people to notice me or even acknowledge me but the thing I have learnt is that no one notices till you have something that they want to notice.
In a car park full of mercedes no one will notice you even if you drive the bet of the best cause there'll be other people who ahve the same thing as you, they'll notice if you have something exotic, something different and uinque to offer them.
Don't wait around for the popular people to notice ya cause the popular people aren't the freinds that'll help in the hour of need. Don't freeze yourself in and under isolation, break the ice.
Be what you truly are cause inside we all are weird. Hiding is not a solution rather its isolation.
Do what you love and do it with your heart.
A will filled with passion and love can change the course of life
At times we expect the desired answer but it's not always that we get what we desired for, At times it's the quite opposite to what we had expected but it's not that we can implement our desired answer on anyone or that we can just get what we wanted to hear. Some of us go into isolation cause of the thump or a shock of not getting the desired answer while some of us never look back.
In a way it's our fault cause we expected too much but the reply was just too little and it wasn't helping in anyway to get back on the feet. I may not make sense cause somethings experienced can't be put in words nor can they be described.
Feelings once lost don't come back. Trust once broken can't be rebuilt with ease and the once who leave don't come back easy.
Kill isolation by expecting what should be expected.
Sunday, 28 April 2013
At the time of need people come to you for help and you do everything possible to help them out but when you're in need no one comes along.
People are selfish cause everyone wants to look after their own benefits but why were we helping them out? when they needed help why were we there to help people get on their feet. Simply cause we had the moral conscious and the moral ethics. I've been at that place a lot of time and what I've learnt that choosing right friends and the right people is the way to live. If we had chosen the right people at the start we could have stayed away from the self imposed isolation.
In life there are certain matters for which one should always be prepared for whether it's about an assignment, financial matters or a simple commitment one should always have the right people on his or her side. Never rely on those who have let you down on more than one occasion.
Kill isolation by choosing the right people to befriend.
Saturday, 27 April 2013
Even if you don't have a chance give it your best try cause miracles do happen in this world,
Isolating someone is the easiest task to let them off the track cause then they don't believe in the themselves and there goes the self confidence and then it's easy for the people to win.
Giving importance to the words that bring you down is like allowing the enemy to invade and opening your gates for them.
Breathe in a deep breath of confidence and tell yourself that you can do it.
Kill Isolation with self confidence cause like bono said
"What you got they can't steal it
No they can't even feel it
Walk on, walk on... "
A click is not heard in the brightest people cause they have lost their click, your click is hidden inside.
I At times when you hear something which is said about you, you just fall down from the clouds of confidence and into the ground. One sentence can change around everything, the ending of your day, the mood, the ambitions, the dreams and the hope. Why? Why does a one simple sentence uttered causes so much pain to the listener.The answer is simple that person holds importance to us whether mother, father, sibling, child, teacher or a friend.
Don't let go of hope even if you hear stuff from people who hold importance in your life cause your life and their is different. They don't live your life so they only know what they can see.
So know what you know, believe in your self and in your dreams, don't give up cause you heard someone saying something about you, keep your confidence and your head should be held high cause it's all about delivering what you got in you.
So kill Isolation by breathing in hope and exhaling out the negativity. You're you unique in your own way so cheer up cause you're just like a limited car model there's only a very few like you.
If you are to choose between beauty and confidence choose confidence cause the beauty fades away but the impression stands forever.
Friday, 26 April 2013
Some people don't like our fun talk at times so we shouldn't stick around and let them give us more shut up calls. No matter how much closer they are, leave and give them space cause otherwise they'll break every string in the relationship that holds you two together.
If someone doesn't like you, you leave and don't ever look back. I've been given too many shut up calls and honestly I'm done geting back to them cause after a while they'll still do the same to us so people self respect and self esteem is what should be our most valuable possesion in a group or in a hanging out. If they insult you leave, you don't become the same like them you simply leave with a smile and don't get back to them till they apologise.
You can find friends who'll love to talk to you and listen to you no matter how weird and different you are. Don't give up and don't make friends based on social and economical values. Different flowers make a bouquet so different friends make life worth living
Leave where you're unwanted and walk into the group where they'll value your presence
Thursday, 25 April 2013
If someone does not want to acknowledge you then why stick around and waste your time on those people?
Leave what the people say and just speak out your ideas cause your idea will be different and different is what makes life beautiful. If we all looked the same would we be oursleves? Similarly if we were to follow everyone it would simply make us a clone, a copy of them so wherever your ideas are different you should speak your mind out and share those ideas.
If you are always gonna follow others then you better give up creativity cause you can't use imagination if you're gonna follow orders from someone and do things their way.
Speak and share your ideas. Who knows that your ideas might be better than them or you can improve your ideas and polish them after discussion so don't go on the silent or humming mode speak your mind out and then work on it.
Even if you think your ideas are stupid or weird you shoud share them by a voice which is and will be heard that's your own voice, use it and win. If you keep it suppressed then be prepared to leave your spot and move down on the ranks cause someone else will speak and move ahead.
The one who follows never leads, the one who takes charge leads.
If what people say is correct then Einstein would'nt have been famous. This world is vicious and honestly people don't want you in the run for the competition so are you gonna give up your dreams and your hope for what isolation and always being the loser?
Nah you don't give up the hope, you stay strong and don't give up cause giving up is easy but without a reward, struggling is hard and tough but with a sweet reward.
Don't let go of hope, dream on and work hard to change your dreams into reality.
The ones who gave up hope, cried an ocean when they came to know how close they were to their dreams.
Wednesday, 24 April 2013
Family, friends, acquaintances, class fellows, neighbours and even random people that we come across walking down the road, in the train, park, stores and other places everyone in his or her life is isolated in one way or another. People don't want to open up even to their helpers, I'll quote my own example if I get something wrong I'll not ask for help, if I get a question wrong I'll never tell it to anyone. Why? It's simple I don't want people to know my flaws.
I'm studying right so if I fall now it's better than falling down the cliff in the exams. Be different, ask things, clear doubts away so that you ace your exams. My mother said to me if you don't know something just accept it and learn it, don't waste time making up impressions cause the only real impression will be expressed when you have a result with A+ written all over it.
We all pretend, isolate just so that we may seem flawless to everyone else, well my friends that's plain wrong. Pretending won't get you, me or anyone no where.
Discussions lead to a better understanding cause we get to know of everyone else's views and it also clears away the doubts present in your mind, which does wonders when you're about to write your answers on the exam paper.
Similarly, when you have issues it's best to discuss them and get rid of them ASAP. If you'll let them cling onto you then you'll fail. Isolation may seem a temporary solution but are you ready to hide for all of your life?
Kill Isolation, talk, smile and laugh.
Tuesday, 23 April 2013
All of us meet new people, make new friends and at times we forget our old friends cause the seems to be in fashion and the old seems out of fashion. When we leave the old friends we make them feel isolated cause they are alone with no one to talk as their friends have left em for the new and in fashion buds. We get so lost in the new friends that we made that we hardly find time to catch up with our old friends, we will always make plans that I'm gonna text him/her today but we don't cause everything comes to our mind when we think of catching up with them. It maybe days, weeks or months before we realize that we getting distant from them. They do realize that we aren't there anymore and that we have found new friends to hang out with.
We are heartless at times you times, we talk to them when we need to and then we forget them just like that but is there any guarantee that our new buds will stand out with us like em? There's no answer to that not until a times comes where you get to see them with your own eyes and then you can't deny the results now can you? They may stick and they may not. Everyone has their own reasons.
I'm not saying that your new buds won't be good or supportive I'm just saying that be there for your friends who stood up for you when no one did. Talking to them, hearing them and helping them out will make them realize that you still care for them and that you're here, that'll make them feel better, feel loved and most of all they'll come out of the isolation and open up to you.
Be there for them and help them cause it's hurtful to know that they've changed so much and in most of the ways. Love em and make em feel loved cause love kills isolation.
Monday, 22 April 2013
Something happened today, a friend of mine she got called names like a liar and etc cause of an arguement, but the people who called her names do they know her whole story? Nope, there's this blindfold of being right on their eyes well let me tell you something, you may be hot, you maybe beautiful, cute, popular and whatever you are but this won't stay forever. You made her leave, you hurt her and frankly it's pathethic when all of us do that. I'm putting it here so that everyone can know how we hurt people without realising and most us don't even realise anything.
She has a big heart that she did'nt say anything, she could have abused them, rediculed them or make fun of them but she didn't she chose to leave cause she has a big heart. People like her are those who are always there for people, but when they need help people make fun of them. She's my friend and I'm glad that she's my friend cause I learnt something today and honestly the same thing happened to me but it was in college with all my so called friends going agaisnt me.
When you meet people like her you should try to understand them, help them, hang out with them cause weird, different whatever everyone may call them they'll be there for you when you need them but will you do the same for them or will you join the rest of the crew and make fun of them?
This is a step towards killing isolation and making people understand that there are people who are shy, they need people to be their friends and help them cause that's what friends are supposed to do. Don't be a seasonal friend or a windy friend. Talk to them, make the first move cause they want someone to come along go and be that person.
Kill isolation and let them talk, let the world know their ideas, arguements and thoughts don't keep them locked behind the chains of everyone's thoughts.
Giving up is easy. You just stand up and say that it's not working out for me but have you ever thought that you're actually somewhere from where you started. It's not hard to carry on or continue but after giving up and realising how close you were that's rather painful.
Sunday, 21 April 2013
Don't pin point people on the bases of religion, preferances, sexuality, choices, priorities, race, colour and life style cause nothing remains still forever I mean sometime later on you may go on choosing the same path. Don't insult people on the bases that they aren't cool according to your cool scale. Don't break a heart cause you may think that a girl is just a toy, they aren't toys man when you'll be treated like a toy you'll know how much it hurts. Don't walk away from the mess that you have made and don't leave out on a friend cause they were there for you but now when they need you you're no where to be found or you don't acknowledge their presence. Simple things are what makes life beautiful. Your one act of stupidity breaks a heart and can even take away a life. One sentence and all what you had could be broken down into a million pieces.
Love the people around you cause life's a gift and the memories are to cheerished. Don't break a heart, mend a heart whenever you can. Don't insult anyone spread love wherever you can and make friends. Don't put salt on a wound, put a bandage over it and heal it.
Love and care are the two simplest gifts that you can give to anyone that'll make them feel better about their lives.
Adios me amigas and me amigos
These questions run our lives and the answer to these are what can make or break a bridge in someone's life and if that bridge is broken it's a matter of breaking a life into a thousand pieces just like a glass but if the person realises what the problem is and rectifies it then the bridge is made and he's solid like steel.
There was this dialouge in the mask of zorro between De lavega and Don Rafael where Rafael says sorry when De lavega's wife is killed (loved by both men) by Rafael's soilders to which De lavega replies "She was never yours to hold" that's the case when we run after somethings which are not ours.
We fall, we lose and then at times we realise that's what the important part is realising what is ours and what isn't.
Realise and work on that people.
It doesn't matter if you're the black sheep in the family or among friends. What matters is that you get people to know what your views and that you don't bend your views just so that people would think that you're cool. If they're your friends and people with an open mind they'll accept you as a cool person with your thoughts and views cause where different opinions exist that's what a lively environment is.
If you can look past the lies, the super ficial lies and the charming decisiving words to melt your heart and speak to the person who truly is on the inside then congragulations you've found the right person for whom you were looking for.
If that person is the right one then distance does not count. Honesty and understanding is what matters at all. Don't think that they won't like you if they knew something about you, we all have flaws in us and if you let them know about your true self I'm sure that it will help you guys to connect better.
I've been in those relationship where you have distance all around but what I've learnt from them all of them is that honesty is what connects you and if you let the misunderstandings grow in the relaationship it's hard to steer it away from crashing into an inceberg. Heartbreaks yeah there'll be broken hearts if you don't have the right person with you. Honestly you're perfect the way you are don't change yourself to impress anyone, don't cross your moral boundaries your own laws don't ever cross them for anyone cause none will do the same when in a relationship. You have to find the people who can cross boundaries for you like you can do the same for them.
Some one once said to me that only a very few people could say that she was once their well I was the quite opposite so I got rejected anyhow she's an amazing person and she has every right to hate me so no complains there.
Just hold on to the right person when you find em. Don't go on looking for the most beautiful or the popular girl or guy stick with the ones who's your type the shadows at times stick with you better than the others, the silent ones are more expressive if they want to express themselves. Be what you are if you're a shadow then look for a shadow cause shadow and light don't go hand in hand.
Don't change ever yourself. Love yourself and be proud
Saturday, 20 April 2013
At times we are guided and at times we just rely on the wrong sort of people to look out for us. Realizing that we have taken the fall and identifying the bump or the hurdles is the msot important thing that you'll ever learn.If someone breaks your trust it's a lesson learnt. If someone leaves you alone when you were there for them it's a lesson that you sticked with the wrong sort of people. Choosing people is a hard task and yes most of us do fail at this cause it's a huge responsibility as the people you are with reflect your interests and your lifestyle. I'm not enocuraging that you ahng out with the people who you think have good values in them while they ignore you. No you hang out with the good people who acknowledge you and respect you for what you are.
You all are awesome and amazing cause we all have our own specialities some of us are famous while some of us are the shy ones who rarely talk, notice everyone and know everyone's names but we are hardly known by people. Being famous alone is not the key here if your heart's all empty from inside then it's just like living a life of a robot, you're everywhere but then again you're just a 9-5 machine or a front page nothing more than that. Be famous and win hearts so you're wanted, so that you're loved by people. Lend out a helping hand and mix things up in your life to make yourself tangy cause a change after a time is what is the most needed.
I've realised who the right people are and honestly it's just great to see how close they really are, family and the good friends are your right people in life. You don't have to look out for millions of miles for the right people they have always been just a few centimeteres away from you.
Adios me amigas and amigos
Friday, 19 April 2013
Similarly when you need a friend chose the honest ones not the ones who meet up to your taste.
The standing water is what you should be afraid of as the running water is nothing but a river flowing down and along its course slowly and steadily .
Thursday, 18 April 2013
Wednesday, 17 April 2013
So the question here is what do? I can't focus on my studies right now cause it's the feeling of being alone and isolated in the heart that's getting to me. Why do we feel that way? Humans do need someone to talk to them and if you don't have a someone at times you do feel alone and without everyone. Songs don't make you feel better neither does thinking about the past cause you need somewhere to shout out a loud someone to just listen to what you have to say. Writing a blog makes me feel better that I can type whatever i feel like but there's a gap which will always be there till you meet someone you can talk to whenever you want to.
If you have that person you can confide into and talk with whenever you want care for em like they're the last diamond on this universe cause if you lose em you can't get em back. Don't let them go stick to them till you can and put up as much as you can.
The first step is always the hardest one but once you get going it all seems fun if you go by food it seems delicious. If you take the first step with some motivation I'll guarantee that you won't ever fail to make an impression and a good one. Winning or losing isn't the real deal the real deal is making an impression so that people trust in you and your abilities to turn over table, surprise them by going agaisnt all odds. People say you're weak or you're a slow learner surprise all odds by shinning out with a result that'll dazzle everyone around you.
What I've learned from life uptill now is don't care about your reputation when you're learning some new topics you don't know anything don't try to cheat and make a fake impression that way you won't learn anything you'll just cheat yourself. The fake impression ruin all your reputation cause in the end when the result comes out you can't hide that and then the people will ultimately know about the truth.
So people don't care for the temporary or fake impressions look out for the real deal making the big impression the good one and you'll win hearts.
Take care and adios me amigos and amigas
Tuesday, 16 April 2013
2) Some really close friends
Don't take any of them for granted otherewise you'll end up just like me.
Parents and siblings they are your rock if you're gonna blow that rock uo who will let you lean on for support lemme answer that NONE!.
Friends the close ones they are your eyes when you need em leave them away and you won't ever see what's coming at you.
Don't listen to people telling you that they're weird or anything even if they are weird so what? Don't they help you when you need help? You think your mom or dad is strict but come on honestly will the passing by people guide you.
Does your gf or bf know better or the people who raised you know better? think about it?
Does the friend who you've known for a few weeks know you better or the friend who's known for years?
Sunday, 14 April 2013
All the times that we shared took off when the reality came along
All the laughs that we laughed are stored in the photos that we clicked
There aint gonna be anyone who'd replace your place
Life ain't the same without you here
A smile does not feel like joy on the lips it's rather a burden
A laugh ain't a laugh it's cry concealed behind the mask
I look around the corridors to see if I can find ya but you ain't there
The walls of college decieve me when i get flashbacks
None to bond the trio together and none to hang around with
Life lost it's good side when you left this world
There'll be a thousand friends that I may have but only one bestie among em
Miss you man. You honestly were the bestest best friend that I'll ever have and I'm sorry that i ditched you for someone whom I thought would stick around with me till the end.
If you let go of hope you'll only fall down further and further and keep on falling but if you have hope you can drag yourself out. Be positive people cause we need positivity in this world.
People who are losing hope don't lose hope cause without you there'd be no hope in our lives. This goes out to my amazing friends and to everyone out there.
YOU PEOPLE ARE WHAT DEFINES LIFE IN OUR LIVES SEEING YOU, TALKING TO YOU AND HANGING OUT WITH YOU MAKES US FEEL WANTED AND LOVED CAUSE YOU HELP US CARRY ON LIFE EVEN WHEN WE MAKE A FOOL OF US OR WHEN WE FALL DOWN ON EVERY NEXT STEP THAT WE ARE ABOUT TO TAKE YOU PULL US BACK ON OUR FEET AND NOW WHEN YOU'RE GOING THROUGH A TOUGH TIME KNOW THAT WE ALL ARE HERE FOR YOU. YOU'RE NOT ALONE WE ARE WITH YOU AT EVERY STEP.
THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING THAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR US WHEN WE NEEDED HELP. YOU CAME AND STOOD BY US.
WE AIN'T LEAVING YOU ALONE AND YOU'RE NOT ALONE.
LOVE YA FOLKS.
Life's a bouquet and you all get together to make a special one for everyone of us. To friends everywhere around the world you guys are amazingly awesome.
You've a heart that beats for him
Eyes that shed tears when he leaves
A heart that aches when you're away from him
And lips that put up a dazzling smile
On this night with the stars shinning
You'll be crowned as a human with a heart that beats
Every that you shed was a part of your soul
Every day that you lighted the candle you were a human
A human with a soul that aches
Eyes that shed tears and a heart that beats
Will you lean against the pills for help
And give up on hope that things will change around here
You'll wait for him all night long sitting on the bed
But baby the college love life
wasn't what he had in mind
The night he took away the innocence in your eyes
Filled it with tears of regret and sorrow for the years to come by
When I'll sing this song just want you to remember
The sun will be rising tomorrow morning when you open your eyes
You've a heart that beats for him
Eyes that shed tears when he leaves
A heart that aches when you're away from him
And lips that put up a dazzling smile
Photography makes me happy and I know that you're better than me but the thing is I take photos with my phone and you guys have DSLR cameras so i know you're in the lead but still i think i put up a tough fight.
And to the friend from whom I got to know about blogging you're awesomly amazing. this photo is for you. So smile me amiga
So thank you all of you once again but beware a solid fight I will put up with ya.
See ya folks. Adios muchachos
Saturday, 13 April 2013
So thank you guys both of you.
Thursday, 11 April 2013
The more you punish yourself the easier it will be for the wrold to laugh at you. At that time you may or may not realise what you're doing hidden in the rage but when you do realise you'll know that the leavers didn't deserve ya.
Lovers will love and haters will hate. So open your eyes and let the leavers leave your world.
Wednesday, 10 April 2013
"There are these patches of memories that come into my head all of a sudden when I'm alone. Things around me would remind me of my ex, how she was and all that. Honestly that feeling is killing me from inside and I desperately want out. I want to run away and just forget those times cause there's no way that we can go back to what we were.
I wish I could change things but I can't I wish I could just run away but I can't. I don't know how long it'll take or how much more time I'll need to let go of her thoughts and her views but they're definitely sticking all over my mind.
Being in love sounds dreamy but the aftermath is a nightmare you just want to run away but you can't all you can do is pretend that you're happy and smile in front of every person that you meet every single day so no one knows what you're enduring".
People may think that I'm weird for always carrying my headphones on me wherever i go but i have a reason to do so when i listen to tunes, melodies, songs, lyrics and beats my mind doesn't let me think of her. Yes using headphones does isolate me and in a way it's negative that's agreed but it does give me a well needed break. like I'll plug in my headphones during the break between the two mega classes and listen to something which would provide me with an alternative to a power nap so thus i feel refreshed. I used to make sketches on my phone but then there came a glitch in the memory and i accidently unknowingly formatted the whole memory and which caused me a loss of some good songs that's a huge hit. Now sketching seems a tough work cause there are a lot of girls and they do get suspicious at what you're doing.
Still trying to get over the ex hopefully will get there soonish.